Writing has always been a passion of mine. I don't write with an outline, as so many do. I create my characters and paint pictures of them so I can see who I am writing about. I start with a location and descriptions of my characters. When this is done, the writing begins. I have no idea what I am writing, or where the story might le
Writing has always been a passion of mine. I don't write with an outline, as so many do. I create my characters and paint pictures of them so I can see who I am writing about. I start with a location and descriptions of my characters. When this is done, the writing begins. I have no idea what I am writing, or where the story might lead. My fingers just start pounding the keys and the book writes itself.
Real life events and people I know, influence my stories. Their comments and personalities provide the basics of what I need. I allow my life to join in the story and take part in my imagination.
I love to hear from my readers and hear their life events so they can be involved beyond reading my books. I encourage my readers to contact me with stories of their happenings so they can be involved and included in my work.
I turned 62 this year., My, how time flies by. I met my husband (actually picked him up) his first time in a gay bar. I haven't let him go since that very night. I asked him five times if I could buy him a drink, and five times he said "no". Never one to give up, I asked him a sixth time and he finally said "yes". That was 36 years ago. Persistence pays off. We have had an incredible life together. I know it's hard to believe, but we have never had a fight. We have had very few disagreements, but we work them out civilly, and very quickly. I have been truly blessed to live such a wonderful life. I wish more couples could experience our love that we have for each other.
We have traveled the world, and have met many friends in each country, and have kept in touch with most. We have seen things we never knew existed. A church made of nothing but human remains. We have eaten strange and wonderful cuisine, that sound unbelievable and something we would never try. But, without experiencing those dishes, we would have missed out on the cultures that each place has to offer. Our word of advice, go for it. Never live a life of regrets.
After saying those three magical words, "I love you", for the very first time, we sat down and told each other our deepest hidden secrets, and our faults. We hid nothing from each other. We said, "tell me now if this bothers you, because I don't want to hear 'I hate this about you', five years from now." We put everything on the table. Never criticize, only encourage. Never try to change each other. Lead by example. Don't love each other, be "in love" with each other. We say "I love you" at the end of every phone call, when we leave the house, when we come home and for no reason at all. We kiss each other at bedtime, waking up, walking in the door, and for no reason at all. We hug each other when we leave the house, when we come home, when we wake up, go to sleep, and for no reason at all. Always be honest with each other. Find those things that made you fall in love with one another, and never forget them. Those are only a few things that have made our lives together so wonderful. Find your secrets to success and never let them go.
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